Remember to Engage Your Job References
I recently read a very interesting article regarding references, and two thoughts immediately struck me:
1) Why is this step of finding the right reference(s) often overlooked by job candidates?
2) Why are we forgetting our manners when seeking help?
References may influence your placement within the company or even compensation:
Candidates spend hours attending networking events, revamping their resumes, personalizing their cover letters and yet such a crucial aspect of the job search process is so often overlooked. Why? References have insights on your work ethic, professional conduct and academic abilities. These people can strongly influence your future position within a company.
Not only is it mandatory to have strong professional references, but many mentors have also encouraged me to know what these references would say when called by an employer. It is no longer enough to have consent from someone that they will be your reference. It is now crucial that candidates ask smart and proactive questions to discover what in fact these references would say about them! Worst nightmare for a job-seeker: choosing the wrong reference!
But, don’t forget your manners:
Once you have found the perfect reference, remember to remember your manners. A simple gesture can mean so much. I think job seekers are so engaged in the entire search process that they sometimes forget their manners. So, this is just a reminder from a fellow job seeker to another to always demonstrate gratitude for the career help and advice that you receive. Whether you receive advice from a friend, family member, employer, professor or mentor, it is still important to say “thanks.”
This step is crucial to differentiate yourself in the mind of that individual. Plus, they will probably be more willing to continue helping you in the future if you remember your manners. I know our generation is immersed in the Internet age, where digital and mobile technologies allow us to stay connected at fast rates, but forgetting to say courtesies such as “please” and “thank you” are simply non-negotiable.
That being said, I am so thankful for my professors, friends and family, current and past employers, and careers mentors who continue to inspire me and provide me with guidance and valuable insight.
